As we continue "uncaping" and "unmasking" Olivia Pope & the people pleaser in her, we discover that people pleasers often start out as PARENT PLEASER If children spend the majority of their childhood/teen years conforming to the needs, desires, and expectations of their parents, and are constantly seeking approval and acceptance, they'll eventually start believing that the only way they'll receive love and nurturing is when they're [unconsciously] taking on the role of people pleaser. In today's episode we dissect the behaviors of people pleasers and the childhood experiences that thrust them into the the life a people pleaser. Check it out and when you're finished let's continue conversation in the Shades of Strong Facebook Community HERE. If this episode resonates with you and you want to go deeper and are ready to start your journey to healing the little Black girl inside of you, please join us in the Sista Circle of Healing HERE. Other Episodes in This 30 - Day Series Day 3 Uncaping, Unmasking, Unhiding |The Side Effects of the Black Superwoman Syndrome Day 2 Uncaping, Unmasking, Unhiding | When Love Becomes Kryptonite Day 1 -- Uncaping, Unmasking, and Unhiding the Strong Black Superwoman Superwoman Must Die | Slaying the Strong Black Woman Syndrome Superwoman Quiz Are you a perfectionist, master performer, people pleaser, or people prover? Take this 4 minute quiz & get a breakdown of your superwoman archetype & how you can use this knowledge to start healing from the Strong Black Superwoman Syndrome.